Open letter to my family

So my really drama loving family has gotten on this big whiny trip about some stuff I wrote that, again, was anonymous, true, and no secret. I've cut them out of my life and look forward to the time I can cut ties more permanently. So here's the thing:

You have treated me like shit for most of my life. I've been punished for something I had no part in. I tried for so long to fit in until I realized I don't really need or want to. When I got married, my husband was appalled at the way I was treated. He had a hard time keeping his mouth shut let alone accepting it. When you all realized that he was a huge asset, I was a bit more accepted but it never escaped my notice that it wasn't me that you had accepted, it was him. So let's get this straight right now. He's done a lot of things for most of you. He's done that for love of me but when I decided I wasn't taking this anymore, he had my back from that moment on. One sister actually had the audacity to STILL call him up for help. HE'S MY HUSBAND!!! Why would he help you? YOU TREAT ME LIKE SHIT AND YOU ALWAYS HAVE!!! So, STILL, he's being asked for things by people who weren't a part of this insane temper tantrum yet felt the need to take sides. He's not going to help you. You are nothing to him. How do you not get that he's my husband and he loves ME and my children and if you hurt one of us you hurt us all. I recognize that none of you understand me. Even less now than you ever have. I don't understand why because if ever I needed family it's now more than ever. Yet you haven't stopped to think of that and what it's like for me. He sees the pain I go through everyday. He sees the hurt that is caused by people who should love me unconditionally. He's always seen that. Never would I have asked him or my girls to take sides but you think they don't see it? You think I've gotten more difficult for you? Imagine what it's like for them, yet they love me even more because of it. My girls are thrilled at the prospect of never having to deal with some of you ever again. I've encouraged them to keep in touch with the ones they love so much and they do. But you hurt us all when you hurt me. Save yourself the embarrassment of looking like an idiot by asking my husband for anything. He and I meant it when we said "for better or worse" and though we've had our ups and downs we still love each other and we work things out. He didn't promise that to any of you.